Dear Elle,
There’s this girl I really like, like I haven’t been attracted to in this way in looooong time. But she doesn’t seem to reciprocate. So my question is, is there anything in particular I should… I don’t know… change?
She’s an actress, really really open and confident, assertive, Irish… likes climbing trees. We went on a date on Thursday, smooched, then the next day mutual friends of ours had a party, and we smooched. Then Sunday, I called her, she texted back she was having a girls day but was sure we’d run into each other. So I texted back asking if she wanted to hang out later that week to which there was no response.
Santiago
Dear Santiago,
The climbing trees part explains it all.
She could a) be anti-boyfriend b) your style weirds her out c) she’s busy d) something really tragic happened or e) she is an idiot.
But to be quite honest, if you are in hearts with someone you make time. Even if it means that you don’t get any sleep.
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I agree that if you really like someone, you’ll make the time to hang out. However, maybe after hanging out and smooching two days in a row she just needed a breather. After all that and then getting called to hang out on Sunday, maybe it was a little too much too soon?