By: amy marie

amy marie — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:03:59 +0000

girls,,, we are not that hard to get !!!! LOVE us ,,, be TRUE to us and yea laughing with you is good too !!! (and for mr the sex is huge too)

By: wandile

wandile — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 11:25:45 +0000

woman are very complex and trying to master them can take you whole life. the best thing to do is to make her feel that you as her husband have no place to go without her alow her realize that you are fully dependant on her. that is to say you are what you are because of her.

By: dbwheeldon

dbwheeldon — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 12:40:26 +0000

■Bobo Honkystonks-YOU ARE THE MAN!!
■kd-WILL YOU MARRY ME?

By: Rachael Nelson

Rachael Nelson — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 15:36:23 +0000

I agree that is all we women want in a man. Happiness is a choice. The Bible says it’s others then your self. Selfishness is what leads to Divorce. Inlaws never butting is a huge cause for fights with Couples also. Couples your #1 in God’s book. Inlaws are #2 in God’s book. Follow the Jewish book and you can have a happy life as a family kids/mates together. Live in a cheaper home with less stuff also.
America is to Have stuff to imprese others you don’t know or like either.
Though shown not Convet is in the Bible.
God’s will is what is missing in famalies today.
Guys take over at home with a at home Mom.
Pray together as a couple and as a family.
Couples alone time is a must.
The key is keep each other happy as The Jewish book says to do.
Men treat your wife as you did when you were dateing.
Women treat your man like you did when dateing.
Parent your kids God’s way.
Obey the Bible and your life can be Great together.

By: JJ

JJ — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 01:40:58 +0000

Ok, ok, ok. So I’ve read this whole thing, and every comment and I must say….
WOW. There are a lot of conflicting ideas out there, and all of them with some validity too. However, the only reason such diversity exists is because people are diverse in their experiences and expectations. Start off by yes, BE YOURSELF, by all means, because that way you are NOT pretending to “be ok” with things that in the future will really start bumming you out. So, if they like you for who you are, then you’re on the right track.
Now, as for “changing”, I don’t think that is very realistic. Men and Women both don’t want to change -and when they do, it is usually ONLY FOR THEMSELF, AS IT SHOULD BE THAT WAY. We are motivated to change because we want ourselves to be something different, something better, something more. No one else can ask this of us, because if they do, they insult us for the person we are today. That can’t be good for a relationship!
So what is the solution? Why are there so many conflicting ideas? Well, I will tell you why, it is because I never took the time to sit down and write the world’s bestselling book: “How to Make and Keep Your Love Happy”, which, I have been seriously thinking about writing for a while now, even giving seminars on the subject.
Why? What makes me so qualified? Well, I will tell you that too. I am qualified, I believe for two reasons. One, I am and have been both the world’s most happiest lover and most saddest lover back and forth my whole life, finally now seeing the light of my own experiences and what caused and created them. Two, I’m a kick ass writer who tells it like it is, with a deep perspective on human emotions, and a first hand ability to solve problems for others. Don’t ask me how, but I do. Unless, of course, it is my own problem, then I refer back to reason #1, my experience.
Let me just leave you with a tidbit of wisdom, for all those truly needing an answer for their relationship today. Women, take it a notch down, just a bit. A little half-knotch, just a smidgeon. Men, take it up a notch, just a bit, a little tiny sparkle of additional effort. Women, give it a tiny bit more grace than you are used to giving. Men, put in just a tad more caring about the other side for a moment. Now, both of you: think before you speak your next sentence.
We all can’t get all along all the time, but trying is an effort that both will play at differently. If we can recognize the other person’s effort, even though it isn’t what we wanted to see from them, we might have a tad more ability to appreciate the other person’s side.
You see, it is all about perspective, and for those who truly do love, but are hurt all the time anyways, just know it is going both ways, and both parties are just not translating their words and efforts and desires in an audible manner for the other party to understand.
If you want to love and be loved in return, you’ve got to drag it out of yourself to share respectfully what is going on and how you feel about it, without limiting it to what is wrong with the other person. You also have to be willing to take it to the limits of human endurance to get to the end of the road sometimes, to get to the peak of understanding. Don’t walk away until it is settled, until it is released, until you both feel you know what happened and why, when things are jacked up and you are both feeling like crap about each other and about yourselves.
My advice is simple, but not easy to do. It works, but we don’t always feel like it is worth it to do it this way. There are some really great specific examples that I know will help some of you at home right now. Men, if you want your woman to be happy, do this: Stand up for yourself without being a prick, but also be willing to hear her UNDERLYING MESSAGE when she complains about _________. What is that underlying message?: “TELL ME YOU CARE ABOUT ME. REASSURE ME! MAKE ME KNOW I AM SPECIAL TO YOU AND THAT ALL THIS CRAP WILL WORK OUT BECAUSE I AM WITH YOU BABY, I AM HERE FOR YOU BABY.”
Women, if you want to be happy do this: Smile more, show your man he is doing a good job at what he is doing when he does good! And once in a great while,
speak what is the REAL way you feel, not the reason you feel it or the thing you complain about because of the reason. Once in a while give a bone that doesn’t require intuitive translation. The guys will be thankful for the break.
Men, show your women you love them by ignoring their outer words of discontentment, and hearing their inner voice, like a little girl, that says do you love me? I need to feel appreciated, respected, adored.
Women, show your men you love them by acknowledging their work and show them respect by appreciating their efforts, regardless of results and outcome.
Men, make your women happy by not fighting with them over trivial shit they throw out to get your attention. They don’t want to fight with you, they want you to notice them, their struggles are with life, not you, they need you to validate their struggle, not fix it for them or tell them it isn’t so bad. They want to you take them in your arms and hug the worries out of them, kiss the fears away, gird them up in confidence by telling them verbally, yes with words, that you will always have their back. You will always be the one they can count on in times of need. Tell them daily. Tell them as often as they start bitching and moaning over what seems completely trivial. Because it is trivial, and they know it, but they don’t have a way to say, “I need you to reassure me. I need you to notice that my stress is too much for me right now. I need you to lift the burden of worry off my shoulders.” You see men, women are saying all these things to you and more, if you had a translator you would hear it perfectly clear as a bell. Women say these things every time they complain about this or that TO YOU, and every time you think they are acting and being a total bitch for no reason, or that they are just crazy, ungrateful heartless creatures who want to suck you dry and leave you for dead, well, they are saying as loud as they can “LOVE ME!!! NEED ME!!! PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!! FULFILL YOUR PROMISES TO NEVER LEAVE ME!! REASSURE ME OF YOUR INTENTIONS!!! You see, the ladies aren’t as self assured as they may have the men believe.
Women, give the guys a break once in a while, and be the one to offer to relieve the stresses for them. it isn’t so hard to imagine that both parties, being human and all, will need this from the other from time to time. Women, it is important to not always be the one in need, in turmoil, in crisis. Sometimes the guys just need to pass off the baton and give over the next leg of the race to you for a moment. Be the one to lift their burden as well, and you both should be appreciating the benefits of this new realized compatibility.
If any of this helped just a single soul, well, then, I’ve done my job here. Peace, out.

Comments on: How to Keep the Woman in Your Life Happy

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